Parents: this little essay is aimed at your children, so please use it as a discussion point with them or, better yet, have them read it themselves!
It's normal to be nervous. Are you scared? Don't worry! That's perfectly normal. We all get a bit on edge when we are confronted with unfamiliar situations. The best strategy is to think positive, but above all, THINK! In other words, if the interviewer asks you your opinion on world hunger, don't panic! Ponder the question for a few seconds, then answer honestly with a few well-chosen words. Be careful not to fill in the silences with 'like' or 'umh' or other mannerisms! The interviewer is merely trying to see how quickly you can think on your feet! Take your time and express yourself clearly.
Ask lots of questions! Should you ask questions? You bet! When you have finished delivering your thoughts on world hunger, deftly return the serve by asking about the weekends or your favorite sport or cultural activity. This lets the interviewer know important information about you. It helps the school decide whether or not you will fit in.
Be confident!
Look the interviewer in the eye! Maintaining eye contact isn't easy, but it is a strong indication of poise and confidence -- qualities which are always appealing. Should you be aggressive? Make provocative statements? I wouldn't advise it, any more than I would advise wearing outrageous clothes. It's just not appropriate. What if you really don't like the school? Be polite and find something positive to say. Be gracious in your responses!
Tips
- Don't chew gum.
- Keep a list of your questions handy on 3 x 5 cards.
- Be truthful.
- Shake hands firmly and look people in the eye.
- Relax and be yourself!
Compare notes.
When the ordeal is over, compare notes with your parents. Record any observations for your records. Make a note of anything which was truly outstanding. Note anything which was an obvious negative. Finally, when you get back home, do the socially correct thing: email a thank you note to the person who interviewed you. Most candidates won't bother to write, so this courtesy sets you apart in the mind of the admissions officer.
There! That wasn't so bad, was it? Get the first interview out of the way and the second interview will be a breeze! Guaranteed!
