The Private School World
What are private schools really like? You probably have heard in the popular media that they are elitist or just for rich kids. That used to be true for some schools, but it is a different world today. Diversity is not just something schools talk about. Diversity is a real, tangible part of most private school communities. Diversity has come about because private school administration and boards of trustees have made it a major policy initiative. Several schools offer a free education for children of families below certain income thresholds.
Perhaps you have heard that the homework is hard and that there is lots of it. That is true. If you send your child to a private high school, she will do more work than if she attends public school. How is that possible? Because class sizes are smaller, resulting in a low student to teacher ratio. The other factor is that students are going to the school because they want to be there. They expect to work hard. They expect to be stretched. You cannot hide in a private school because it is too small. Everybody knows you. You know everybody.
Another big consideration in deciding to go to private school is that it is cool to be smart. Private schools are also safe places to learn.
The sports programs are an integral part of private school life. They are not optional. The whole school takes part in sports usually on Wednesday and Saturdays when classes are held only in the mornings.
Choosing A Primary School
Finding places in a good private primary or grade school is not easy. Any school which enjoys a good reputation is going to have many more applicants than places. In cities like New York the competition is extremely tough. You and your child will undergo a battery of interviews and tests to make sure that you both pass muster. Yes, both parent and child need to be accepted by any private school at any grade level. The reason why is that private schools embrace the idea that education is a partnership. The partnership consists of parent, child and school. The school needs to be convinced that all partners are pulling their weight. The other important fact to understand is that you need to start the school choice process a year or more in advance. If you are looking for a place in fall of 2010, then ideally you would start the process in the spring of 2009.
Montessori schools of every kind dominate the PK-6 market. Waldorf or Steiner schools offer another alternative with some schools continuing on to twelfth grade. The primary divisions of most country day schools offer a variety of teaching methods.
Choosing A Prep School
Prep schools come in two flavors: residential or boarding schools and day schools. The day schools are the most popular and offer a virtually unlimited selection of locations, curricula and styles. The religious or parochial schools tend to be the least expensive. Country day schools hover near the top end of the scale.
Most schools have web sites which offer most of the basic information you need to begin to develop a list of schools worthy of a second look. Just be aware that the web sites and the DVD's schools will send you present the school as it wishes to be seen. Virtual visits can only give you an idea of what the school is like. You really need to visit each school on your short list.
Once you have made up your mind about whether to send your child off to board or not, then you need to focus on finding the right 'fit'. Indeed, the best school is going to be the one which fits your child's needs the best. Ranks are not important. Your child's happiness is.
The Admissions Process
The major admissions hurdle your child has to get over is the testing. That takes place in the late fall of the year before entry. The rest of the process is straight forward usually consisting of an interview and an essay.
Paying For Private School
A private school education is expensive. Fortunately most schools offer a variety of payment options. There are even a few schools which are free to qualified applicants.
Is It Worth It?
Sending your child to private school is a tremendous sacrifice both financially and emotionally. But in the end what matters is that you will have given your child a great start in life. The lessons learned and the friends made will stay with her for a lifetime.
